7 Truths About Teens and Dating Parents Need To Know

Teenagers and dating—the mere thought of it can make every parent’s heart race. However, this is the reality that sooner or later you will have to face. Especially the teen years, which are loaded with a rage of emotions—sorry, happiness, frustration, and now that element of romance.

Therefore, it becomes important for parents to understand the reality behind it.

Read this article to explore the must-know truths about teens and dating that you should be aware of.

Did you know that by the age of 18, almost half of the teens are already in a relationship? Yes, half of them! By this, you know, kids start dating already before you know it. And it can even start as a 'special friend’ right from middle school. Therefore, we recommend getting prepared to talk about teen dating sooner. 

Teen dating can be a complete episode of daily soap opera—drama, emotions, and twists. You don’t need to be intrusive. However, talking openly about the relationship and letting them express their emotions can certainly help them share their feelings openly. You might even be the host of their show, give advice, or laugh out loud about some sheer crazy moments.

Teenage is the time of life when emotions are at their peak. And teen relationships can be even more intense than the season finale of your favorite web series. One moment the heart would be head over heels. And the next—deep into the sadness of the breakup. Thus providing emotional support and a shoulder to cry on during your kid’s lows.

It is important to have some strictness in your kid’s life. It's not just about turning into a strict warden; it’s rather important for their safety. Let your kids know about safe boundaries and what is acceptable and what is not. Setting such boundaries and rules will let them understand reality and keep unnecessary drama out of their lives.

Nowadays, teen dating usually starts with a text on social media and dating apps. In such cases, it is important to be a little extra alert and teach your child about the potential impact of digital romance. This is because everything that you see on social media is not always right. And thus, some skepticism is indeed needed when it comes to teenage dating. 

The fear that ‘everyone else is doing it’ knowingly or unknowingly forces kids to try dating. The peer pressure of missing out on things, or what in the Gen Z language is called FOMO, often pushes the teens to get into relationships with unrealistic expectations. Let your child know that they should wait to get into a relationship until they feel ready.

For teens, breakups can feel like the end of the world. Do you also remember your first heartbreak? It feels the same! Maybe some relaxing moments with them or a Netflix binge-watching session can give them a sense of relief that the end of a relationship doesn't mean the end of life. In fact, heartbreaks are a part of relationships. Give your kid some comfort food and help him come back stronger.

From creating healthy boundaries to ensuring your child feels connected to you, this is an important approach when it comes to ensuring you empathize with and understand them. Your teen may not get everything right. As parents, it's about you to give them the guidance and support they need during their tough time. While most parents want to protect their child from breakups or making bad choices, sometimes it's about learning along the way from their own experiences. It is the experience that shapes what they'll become in the end.

Also read our article on how parental involvement in teenage relationships should look like.