The Football Hold, Cross-Cradle, and More: A Guide to Breastfeeding Positions

By Indira Varma|3 - 4 mins read| March 03, 2025

Finding a suitable breastfeeding position can make all the difference in your nursing journey. Whether you're a new mom just getting started or looking to try something different, understanding the various holds can help make breastfeeding more comfortable for both you and your baby. Let's explore seven popular positions, when to use them, and how to know which one might work best for you. 

1. Cradle Hold

The cradle hold is one of the most famous breastfeeding positions. It's comfortable and allows you to see your baby's face while feeding. 

Steps:
  • Sit in a comfortable chair with armrests or on a bed with pillows. 
  • Place your baby across your lap, facing you. 
  • Support your baby's head with the crook of your arm, ensuring their nose is towards your nipple. 
  • Place their lower arm under yours. 
  • Ensure their ear, shoulder, and hip are in a straight line. 
Tips:
  • Use a stool to support your feet if sitting in a chair to avoid leaning forward. 
  • Avoid this position if you've had a caesarean section, as it may put pressure on the scar. 

2. Lying on Your Side

This position is ideal for night feeds or if you've had a caesarean section. 

Steps:
  • Lie on your side with your baby facing you, tummy to tummy. 
  • Use pillows for back support and to keep your baby aligned. 
  • Guide your baby's head to your breast with your free arm. 
Tips:
  • Ensure your baby's ear, shoulder, and hip are aligned. 
  • Remove any support pillows after feeding. 

3. Laid-Back Nursing

Also known as biological nursing, this position is great for comfort and can help with latching. 

Steps:
  • Lean back on a sofa or bed with pillows supporting your back. 
  • Place your baby on your front, tummy to tummy. 
  • Guide your baby to your nipple while supporting them. 
Tips:
  • This position is excellent for mothers who have had a caesarean section, as it keeps the baby away from the incision. 

4. Football Hold (Rugby Hold)

This position is perfect for mothers who have had a caesarean section or are breastfeeding twins. 

Steps:
  • Sit in a chair with a pillow or cushion at your side. 
  • Position your baby under your arm, with their hips close to yours. 
  • Support their neck with your hand and guide them to your nipple. 
Tips:
  • Use a pillow to support your arm and baby. 
  • This position helps avoid pressure on the tummy and is great for twins. 

5. Koala-Hold (Straddle-Hold)

Ideal for babies with reflux or other issues that require an upright position. 

Steps:

  • Have your baby sit on your thigh or hip, facing you. 
  • Ensure their back and head are upright while feeding. 
Tips:
  • This position is best for older babies who can sit unaided but can be used with newborns with extra support. 

6. Cross-Cradle Hold

This position offers more control over your baby's head, making it perfect for those with latching issues. 

Steps:
  • Sit upright and hold your baby across your chest with the arm opposite the breast you're using. 
  • Support your baby's head and guide them to your nipple. 
Tips:
  • Use a pillow across your lap for added support. 
  • This position is helpful for babies who struggle to latch deeply. 

7. Upright Breastfeeding

It's great for older babies who can hold their heads up. 

Steps:
  • Sit upright with your baby straddling your thigh or on your hip. 
  • Ensure their spine and head are upright while feeding. 
Tips:
  • This position is convenient when out and about or if you have mobility issues. 

Comparing Breastfeeding Positions

Position Best For Head Support Required Good for C-Section 
Cradle Experienced pairs Moderate No 
Side-Lying Nighttime feeds, recovery Moderate Yes 
Laid-Back Forceful letdown, C-section Minimal Yes 
Rugby Twins, C-section High Yes 
Koala Reflux, tongue-tie Varies by age Yes 
Cross-Cradle Newborns, latch issues Very High Possible 
Upright Older babies, mobility issues Low Yes 

Finding Your Perfect Position

Remember, there's no one "right" way to breastfeed. The best position is the one that works for you and your baby. Don't be afraid to try different holds until you find what feels most comfortable. Your body and your baby's preferences might change over time, so staying flexible is key. 

Some babies prefer variety, while others like consistency. Pay attention to your baby's cues and your own comfort. If you're experiencing pain, soreness, or difficulty with latching, don't hesitate to reach out to your lactation consultant, who can provide personalized guidance. 

Above all, be patient with yourself and your baby as you learn together. With a little practice and persistence, you'll find your groove and be nursing like a pro in no time! 


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