How to Reduce Milk Supply Gently During the Weaning Process?

By Anjali Patel|4 - 5 mins read| March 11, 2025

Weaning from breastfeeding represents an important milestone in both a mother's and baby's journey together. This natural transition requires patience, understanding, and the right approach to ensure comfort for mom while supporting baby's changing nutritional needs. For many mothers, finding ways to reduce milk supply gently becomes a priority during this process. 

When the time comes to wean, whether it's after a few months or a few years of nursing, doing so gradually helps prevent the discomfort and potential complications that can come with abrupt changes. Sudden weaning often leads to engorgement, increased risk of blocked ducts, and even mastitis – all experiences most nursing mothers would prefer to avoid. 

This guide explores effective, gentle methods to help reduce milk production naturally during the weaning process. 

Why Go Slowly?

Your body has been working hard to produce milk for your baby, and it needs time to adjust to the new normal. When you wean too quickly, you might experience: 

  • Painful engorgement 
  • Clogged milk ducts 
  • Risk of mastitis (breast infection) 
  • Emotional challenges for both you and the baby 

Going slowly gives both your body and your baby time to adjust to this new phase of your relationship. 

Gradual Reduction Method

The most gentle approach is to gradually reduce nursing sessions: 

  • Start by eliminating one feeding session (usually the one your baby seems least interested in) 
  • Wait a few days until your breasts adjust before dropping another session 
  • Replace nursing sessions with a bottle, cup, or solid foods, depending on your baby's age 
  • Continue this pattern until you've weaned completely 

Your body responds to demand, so when you nurse less, you'll naturally produce less milk. 

Herbs That Can Help Reduce Supply

Several herbs have been traditionally used to decrease milk production: 

  • Sage tea: Drinking 1-3 cups of sage tea daily can help reduce milk supply 
  • Peppermint: Peppermint tea or even peppermint candies may help decrease production 
  • Parsley: Adding extra parsley to your meals or drinking parsley tea 
  • Jasmine: Some studies suggest applying jasmine flowers to the breasts can help 
  • Chasteberry: Available as a supplement that may help regulate hormones 

Important: Always consult with your healthcare provider before using any herbs, especially if you're not completely weaning. Some herbs may pass through breast milk and affect your baby. 

Medications

Some medications can help suppress lactation, but they should only be used under medical supervision: 

  • Birth Control Pills: Estrogen-containing birth control pills can help reduce milk supply. However, they should only be used under a doctor's guidance. 
  • Sudafed (Pseudoephedrine): This decongestant can decrease milk production but may cause side effects like anxiety and insomnia. Use it only as directed by a healthcare provider. 

Managing Engorgement

Engorgement is common during the initial stages of weaning and can be quite painful. Here are some tips to manage it: 

  • Cold Compresses: Apply cold compresses or ice packs to your breasts to reduce swelling and discomfort. This can be done between feedings or pumping sessions. 
  • Cabbage Leaves: Chill cabbage leaves in the refrigerator and place them inside your bra. Change them every few hours or when they wilt. Cabbage can help soothe engorged breasts and may reduce swelling. 
  • Warm Showers: While cold compresses are helpful for engorgement, a warm shower can also be beneficial. It can help relieve pain and promote milk flow if you need to express some milk. 
  • Massage: Gently massage your breasts, especially in a warm shower, to help relieve pain and promote milk flow. 

Pro Tips

Supportive Bras Are Your Friends

Wearing a supportive (but not tight) bra during weaning helps in multiple ways: 

  • Provides gentle pressure that signals your body to slow milk production 
  • Offers comfort and support as your breasts change 
  • Prevents leaking through clothes 

Hand Expression for Relief 

When your breasts feel painfully full during weaning: 

  • Express just enough milk to relieve discomfort. 
  • Be careful not to empty the breast completely, as this signals more production. 
  • Stand in a warm shower and apply gentle pressure if needed. 

Remember, the goal is comfort, not emptying. 

Timeline for Milk Supply Reduction

The time it takes for the milk supply to decrease varies from person to person. Some may see a reduction in milk production within a few days, while others may take several weeks. It's also common to experience occasional let-down sensations or leaking for months after weaning. 

Conclusion

Reducing milk supply during weaning requires patience and a gentle approach. By gradually decreasing nursing or pumping sessions, using supportive measures like cold compresses and cabbage leaves, and considering herbal remedies or medications under medical supervision, you can minimize discomfort and ensure a smooth transition for you and your baby. Always prioritize your health and seek professional help if needed. 


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