How to Avoid Engorgement and Discomfort During Weaning?

By Samira Reddy|3 - 4 mins read| March 12, 2025

Weaning from breastfeeding can be a challenging time for many mothers, especially when it comes to managing breast engorgement and discomfort. Engorgement occurs when the breasts become overly full of milk, leading to swelling, pain, and sometimes a slight fever. Understanding why engorgement happens during weaning and learning how to handle it can make this transition smoother for both you and your baby. 

Why Does Engorgement Happen During Weaning?

Engorgement during weaning typically occurs because the body is still producing milk, but the demand for it is decreasing. This mismatch can cause the breasts to become painfully full. Other factors contributing to engorgement include: 

  • Sudden Reduction in Feeding: If you stop breastfeeding abruptly, your body doesn't have time to adjust milk production, leading to engorgement. 
  • Inconsistent Milk Removal: If you don't express milk regularly during weaning, it can build up and cause discomfort. 
  • Hormonal Changes: The hormonal shifts during weaning can affect milk production and lead to engorgement. 

How to Handle Engorgement During Weaning?

Managing engorgement during weaning involves a combination of techniques to reduce discomfort and gradually decrease milk production. Here are some helpful tips: 

  • Gradual Weaning: Start by replacing one or two breastfeeding sessions per week with a bottle. Gradually increase the number of bottle feedings over time. This approach allows your body to adjust milk production slowly, reducing the likelihood of severe engorgement. 
  • Express Milk as Needed: If your breasts feel uncomfortably full, express just enough milk to relieve the pressure. You can do this by hand or with a breast pump for a few minutes. Removing too much milk can stimulate production, so be cautious. 
  • Use Cold Compresses: Cold packs or cold cabbage leaves can help reduce swelling and relieve pain. Avoid using heat, as it can increase swelling. 
  • Wear a Supportive Bra: Switch to a sports bra for added support. This can help reduce pain and tenderness. 
  • Pain Relief: Take pain medications like acetaminophen or ibuprofen if needed. These are safe while breastfeeding. 

What NOT To Do?

Some outdated advice can actually make things worse: 

  • Don't bind your breasts to try to force milk to "dry up." This can lead to plugged ducts, infections, or even breast abscesses. 
  • Avoid heat packs or hot water bottles directly on engorged breasts—they can increase swelling (though warm showers right before expressing a little milk can help with the flow). 
  • Don't pump for long periods, as this stimulates more milk production—exactly what you're trying to reduce! 

Additional Tips for Comfort During Weaning

  • Monitor for Infections: Check your breasts regularly for signs of infection, such as redness or fever. 
  • Seek Support: If you experience persistent discomfort or signs of infection, consult a healthcare provider or lactation consultant. 

When to Call Your Healthcare Provider?

While some discomfort during weaning is normal, be on the lookout for: 

  • Fever above 101°F 
  • Red, painful areas that might indicate a blocked duct or infection 
  • Symptoms that worsen instead of improving 

Conclusion

Remember that weaning is a unique journey for every mom and baby. Some women experience minimal discomfort, while others need more time and support through the process. Be patient with yourself and your body as it adjusts to this new phase. 

The key takeaways? Wean gradually, relieve uncomfortable fullness (but only enough to feel better), use cold compresses and supportive bras, and take pain relievers if needed. 

With these approaches, you can make your weaning experience much more comfortable and give your breastfeeding journey the gentle conclusion it deserves! 

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