How to be a good parents? how we can understand child well?

Parents are the primary and the immediate area of socialization for kids. So it is our duty to be a good parent since we are bringing them to this world.
To be a good parent , first we have to be a good human. The
we are a good being, we'll become a good parent as well.
To be a good parent we have to understand them kids, we have to respect kids , we have to teach them , nourish them , feed them.
To be a good parent we need to understand our kids first and foremost. If we fail to understand our kids , they'll fail to understand us and hence we'll fail to be a good parent.
We need to educate them well, play with them , keep them happy. Only then we'll become a good parent.The best way to be a good parent to a child is first becoming a good human to them . Then the second and one of the nost important way is by becoming their friends and pals.
The sole reason parents want to be friends
with their kids and not just parents to them is primarily because of the age and generation gap and by becoming friends,  the mental understanding comes to a more or less same level.
So when parents prefer to be best friends to their child, the level of understanding increases to a whole new level. A child vibes the most with his friends, he plays along the most with his or her friend, so if parents can be their friends,  the regular relation of parent kid formality and the monotonous machinery of correction and teaching. The kids will play and try to learn most from their best friend,  their parents. They'll share all their problems and most importantly the relationship between parents and children strengthens.
The solidarity and bond between the two kins , parent and kid, is maximized when parents become the children's best friend.